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How you show up. What you share. Who gets to see it.

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Your people. Your Vegas.
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Your Kink Signature

Take the Kinkmeter to get your Kink Signature, then choose whether to show it on your profile.

Kinkmeter
Your Picture
Shows next to everything you post.
Square works best. JPG, PNG or WebP, up to 3MB.
About You
This part is public — other members can see it.
The only name anybody sees. It has to be yours alone — no two members share one. Do not use your real name or your email address.
0/500 — 20 characters or more earns you points.
Pick as many as fit. This shows on your profile.
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Your date of birth is set when you join and is never shown to anyone. If it is wrong, contact support — it is the record that keeps this community 18+.
Your Kinks
Click anything you're into and it joins your cloud. The bigger a tag, the more members here have picked it — so the cloud is the community, not a fixed list.
It joins the library so everyone can use it.
YOUR CLOUD
THE COMMUNITY
Sorted A–Z so you can find one. Bigger means more members hold it; past a certain point a tag stops growing and goes bolder and brighter instead, so the cloud never gets shoved around by one runaway tag.
Click a tag you hold again to drop it. Shift-click marks it as a hard limit instead — limits never count toward a tag's size, and are never returned by a search for people into it.
Other Interests
The rest of you. This is what people actually strike up a conversation about — far more often than anything on the play list.
Not on the list? Add it and it is yours.
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Add photos

Everyone in the community can see these.
Tap the pencil on a picture to add stickers, or to scramble a face or a number plate before it goes up.
Drag your pictures here JPG, PNG or WebP · up to 25MB each Choose files
Video keeps its location data. Photos are re-encoded on your device, which strips where they were taken. We cannot do that to a video in the browser, so a clip filmed at home may carry that with it. If that matters, film it somewhere else or leave it off.
Your Gallery
Every item carries its own audience. Set it as you upload, and change it any time afterwards using the control below each thumbnail.
0 in your gallery · photos JPG, PNG or WebP up to 25MB · video MP4, WebM or MOV up to 100MB
Contest entries
Memes you made for the Weekly Meme Contest. They stay out of your main gallery and show in their own section on your profile.
Couple
If you are together with somebody else on here, the two of you can share a third profile — its own name, pictures, messages and guestbook. You both keep your own accounts exactly as they are; nothing is copied, moved or rebuilt, and neither of you logs into anything new.
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Partners & relationships
Polyamorous, partnered, married, in a dynamic — list the people you are with, as many as you like. Nothing shows on either profile until they confirm it. You need to be friends on here first.
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Your Guestbook
People who come by your profile can leave a sticker on it. You are the only one who sees who left which — to anybody else the board is just stickers. That is on purpose: nobody should have to announce to the next visitor that they were interested.
Who has signed
Tap anyone to open their profile. Remove a signature and the sticker comes off the board.
Background
Put one of your photos behind the board. Pick from what you have already uploaded — if you want a new one, add it under Photos first.
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Stickers have to stay readable. A busy or bright photo usually needs more dimming than you would think — the board above updates as you drag.

Settings
Photo Editor
Pick one of your pictures to add stickers, or to scramble a face, a tattoo or a number plate you would rather not have out there.
Editing replaces the picture. The version you started with is deleted rather than kept alongside — an original still sitting in storage is the thing covering a face was meant to prevent. There is no undo.
Sticker Packs
Bought with points you earn on the site. Redaction is free and always available — you should never have to pay to hide your own face.
Vegas Visits
Share when you will be in Vegas. Your usual stay and each visit are kept separate.

Earlier trip records stay as saved. New visits are always to Las Vegas.

Your Links
Anything you leave blank simply won't appear on your profile.
Content & Cam Links
Sell or stream somewhere? Put it here and it shows on your profile with the price, so people know what they are clicking before they click it.
Adding one of these marks your account as a content creator. Your profile gets a creator border and a badge, and members who have switched creators off will not see you in the member list, will not get your posts in their feed, and cannot be sent a first message by you. Remove every link and the flag comes off straight away — but only once a month.
Hosting
Everything here is the same information the event form asks for. Fill it in once as a setup and pick it from a list when you post a party, instead of typing your address and house rules every time.
Nobody else can see any of this. Not other members, not staff. Your address and your rules stay yours until you actually create an event with them — that is the moment any of it becomes visible, and only on that event.
Your setups
A setup is a place plus the rules that go with it. Most hosts need one or two — home, and wherever else they throw things.
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Community Questions
A few questions worth sitting with. Answer what you feel like, skip what you don't — there is no wrong number.
These are private to you. They are never shown on your profile, in the feed, or to another member — enforced by the database, not just hidden here.
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Before you add that

Adding a content link marks your account as a content creator. Here is exactly what changes.
  • ✓Your links go in your profile header with the site name, brand colour and the price, so people know what they are clicking.
  • ✓You get a creator border and badge so members looking for creators can spot you.
  • ●Members can switch creators off. If they do, you will not appear in their member list, your posts will not reach their feed, and you cannot send them a first message.
  • ●You can go back once a month. Remove every link and the creator flag comes off straight away — but you cannot do it again for 30 days. Adding and removing inside the first 24 hours does not count against that.
Wardrobe
Everything you have won, bought or are holding, and what you are wearing. One of each kind at a time: put a ring on and the old one comes off.
This is how you look across the site
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Status
What you've built up so far.
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How You Earned It
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Messages
Your conversations. Click one to open it.
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Privacy & notifications for your personal account. Profile details, photos and style apply to the identity you are editing.

Invisible browsing

Age and online visibility are beside your details in My Profile. These preferences apply to your personal account.

Invisible mode You never show as online, and looking at somebody’s profile does not put you on their list of visitors. Every member gets this — privacy is not a perk.

Who can see me

Keep brand-new and unknown accounts from seeing you at all — your profile, posts and photos, and you in search and Who’s Online. It only works one way: you can still see them, so you can find the friend you just invited. Your friends, and anyone you follow, always get through.

Accounts at least this old
Standing at least Choose the minimum trust level for members who can see you. Trust reflects profile completion, verification and community participation.
Verified members only

Member search

Show me in member search Turn this off and nobody finds you by searching. People can still reach your profile from your posts, groups and events.
What search may use to find you Untick anything you would rather not be filtered on. Somebody searching for “women, 30–40, Henderson” only finds you if you have left age, gender and place ticked.

On your profile

Show events I went to Lists the events you RSVP’d to on your profile’s Activity tab. Off means only you see them. Members only ever see events they are allowed to see.
Memberships on your profile Houses show under your name unless you hide them. Clubs and groups only show if you turn them on.
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Your location, and which details show to whom, are set beside each detail on the profile editor — that is where you can see what you are hiding.

Open the profile editor

Messages

These only apply to somebody writing to you for the first time. Anybody you have already written to can always reply.

Who can send me a first message
Only from verified members People who have shown us a photo of themselves.
Only from people with a profile picture
Not from brand-new accounts How long somebody has to have been a member before they can write to you.

Connections

Let people follow me Following is one-way and lets somebody see your posts in their feed. Turning this off stops new followers; people already following you stay.
Let people send me friend requests
Who can comment on my posts and photos
Who can tag me in a photo A tag never shows on your profile until you agree to it, whoever sends it.
Let people sign my guestbook

Content creators

Some members sell or stream. Decide whether creator profiles appear in your feed and member discovery.

Hide content creatorsPeople you already follow or count as friends are not affected.

Safe for work

Blur every picture For when you are somewhere people can see your screen. Pictures stay blurred until you hover over or tap them. Follows you onto any device you sign in on.

Parts of the site

Not interested in something? Hide it from your menus and home page. You can always bring it back here.

Meet Up and eventsParties, munches, classes and the plans board.
Weekly meme contestThe meme contest and its box on the home page.

Blocked people

Blocking works both ways and everywhere: neither of you can see the other’s profile, posts or photos, or message, follow or tag each other. They are not told. Block somebody from the button on their profile.

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Notifications

Two separate questions for every kind of thing that happens: do you want to see it on the site, and do you want an email about it. Most people want the bell for everything and email for almost nothing.

On site Email
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Emails go to the address you signed up with, and every one carries a link back here. We never sell or share it.

Account & security for the person signed in, even when editing a couple or club profile.

Trust & daily limits

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Email address

Signed in as . Changing it sends a confirmation link to the new address, and the change only happens once you click it.

Password

Devices

Left yourself signed in somewhere? This signs you out on every phone, tablet and computer, including this one.

Vacation mode

I am on vacation Your profile stays up but is greyed out with an “On vacation” banner, so people know you will not answer for a while. Your reputation is frozen while it is on. Members who disappear for three weeks or more without vacation mode slowly lose reputation; your points are never touched.

Take a break

Deactivating hides your profile, posts and photos from everybody and takes you out of every list. Nothing is deleted — sign back in and reactivate here whenever you like.

Want everything deleted for good instead? Ask us through Feedback and we will remove your account and everything in it.

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