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How kinky
are you?
Meet your Kink Signature. A little self-discovery. A lot more you.
Explore your openness, intensity, power dynamics, frequency, mental connection, and experience. Then make your signature yours.
Both include the full result card. Both give you the full result card. Deep Dive asks five times as much, so the gauges land far closer to the truth. Time estimates vary.
Your interests. Your pace.
How well does each statement describe you? Think about your preferences, even if you haven’t explored them yet. All scenarios mean consenting adults and agreed boundaries.
Not sure and skipped answers are left out of scoring. You can go back and change any answer. Your unfinished answers stay in this browser tab’s session until you finish or clear them.
OPTIONAL · YOUR INTERESTS & ROLES
Your collective kink.
How do you feel about each kink? Select all that apply. You can love something, prefer a particular role, and have tried it—all in one answer. Leave anything unfamiliar blank. These choices don’t change your Kink Signature score.
“Fantasy only” means interest in the idea, without wanting to act on it. “Have tried it” records experience, not enjoyment. “Not for me” clears conflicting interest choices; you can still mark that you have tried it.
Selections are stored privately with your result. Comparisons stay off until you claim your result and enable them. When enabled, another opted-in member can see mutual interests, role fit and a preference-match rating—not your answers or your full list. Fill in at least 8 interests for a rating.
Your result will be saved with an unlisted link that anyone who has it can view. No name is attached. Questionnaire answers are used to calculate the result and are not stored on the server. You can stop sharing or delete the result using your private management link.
YOUR KINK SIGNATURE
A signature.
Entirely yours.
My signatures.
KinkmeterWhat does my score mean?
Kinkmeter is a self-reflection tool, not a scientific assessment or a measure of consent, safety, worth, or relationship success. Quick Rundown offers fewer observations; Deep Dive adds detail, not proven accuracy.
Your overall score equally weights openness, intensity, power interest, desired frequency and mental engagement. Power uses your stronger preference for leading or following, so switching doesn’t automatically score higher. Experience is shown separately and never affects the overall score.
Each answered statement contributes 0–4 points. Not sure and skipped answers are excluded. At least 60% of statements in each scored dimension, with some answers about both leading and following, are needed to calculate a result. Titles describe score bands; they aren’t ranks to climb. Questionnaire and scoring version: km-1.
Compatibility compares shared interests, complementary roles and desired frequency. The result explains overlap, not whether two people should play together. Your boundaries always apply, regardless of a number.